Most of my Christmas Day Services have been at the C of I church in Dunleer. It was Low Church, austere architecturally and with the old, simple liturgy. Even the plate was a wooden platter, the sort of thing from which Oliver Twist might have had an exiguous helping of gruel. It was presented by my brother-in-law to mark the Christening of his eldest in the church.
Actually he had another motive. He was driven to distraction by Mr Sloan taking the collection on a small salver, too small even to accomodate the meagre offerings of a C of I congregation. Simon is a man of religious conviction but can be a bit peppery – I remember him adjusting the amount of his contribution to the plate according to the length of the sermon. And then he had that run-in with the Dean of Trim Cathedral (I’m a Believer) leading him to make an appearance on Ireland’s most famous TV chat show – The Late Late Show. He would ideally like to dictate the Order of Service. Instead he contents himself designing the point-to point course for the Tara Harriers and Meath Foxhounds.
However, the sleepy old Church of Ireland moved with the times and appointed women clergy before the C of E got round to it. But the C of E have caught up. On Christmas morning the Service was taken by the Bishop of Taunton (Ruth), the Abbey Vicar (Claire) and an Abbey curate (June). Gluten-free wafers were available on request, reminding me of the fare in Dunleer – cubes of sliced white bread.
Once, in Kilsaran, the chalice was a motor racing trophy. The keys to the church safe had been mislaid and a parishioner improvised. Only one person noticed – Alan Tinsley, ever observant. He regarded his visits to Barmeath as a teenager, much as an anthropologist would look upon a stay with an Amazonian tribe. Once he experimented by drinking a home-made liqueur at a neighbour’s house. Subsequently he thought he had gone blind but it was simply that the lights weren’t working.
Alan remembers the ‘home made liqueur’ incident. He is convinced that it was poitin (poteen) – illegal then, but legit versions have been available in supermarkets for the last few years!
If you scour the New Yers Honours list our host’s son has been given a gong, as has scion of Co Louth, Constantine Louloudis.