The Humbling Lot of Mortality

 

April 2023.

Life’s never perfect. I have been up North for a few days staying with friends and, can you believe it, the lanyard is broken on their flagpole.

It is inaccessible; even the youngest and most agile under-footman at Blandings would struggle to get up there and my host opined that he needs a cherry-picker. I don’t think he means a soldier in the 11th Hussars.

April 2023.
April 2023.
April 2023.
April 2023.

We attended the cathedral on Holy Wednesday and I noticed this memorial.

MILDRED a Daughter of

The Right Reverend SIR GEORGE FLEMING

of Rydall Hall Baronet

Lord Bishop of Carlisle

and Relict of

EDWARD STANLEY of Ponfonby Hall Efquire

died June 27th 1789

Aged 71

In grateful Remembrance of an affectionate Parent

whofe maternal Tendernefs exemplary Fortitude & Chriftian Refignation

in trying feenes of domeftic Affliction

were ever eminently confpicuous

and whofe terreftrial Remains

(Such alas! is the humbling Lot of Mortality)

are mingled here with Duft and Afhes

GEORGE EDWARD STANLEY of Ponfonby Hall Efquire

Her only son

and the only Survivor of her ifsue

caufed this monument to be erected

These days social services would be called in before the stone mason had finished to look into Mildred’s “trying feenes of domestic Affliction” but perhaps her son refers to the loss of her other children. You may, pedantically, be interested in the substitution of f for s in which case I cannot be of help.

 

3 comments

  1. Having a different “s” for the middle of the word than for the end is not uncommon: think of the German Fraktur printing, or of Greek, where the sigma changes at the end of the word.

    But what I came here to say was that it was Mildred’s terrestrial remains, not her “territorial remains” that are mixed with dust and ashes. (And “duft” is a fine misreading, if one thinks of the German.)

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